*3Some*

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mesranya berbicara
hilang getar di dada
saling terpesona
namun tak bermakna ku cinta

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kau buat ku selesa
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kita saling teruja
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by Yanie & Diddy

By Jeff Cohen Special to Yahoo! Personals
Comment By Sheyna Othman to Owange*3some*

Great Gal Turnoff #1: Showboat Sammy

Maybe he owns a yacht off the coast of France. Maybe he has a timeshare in the Hamptons. Maybe his annual bonus is bigger than most guys’ salaries. That’s all well and good, but does it really need to be divulged on the first date?

I enjoy listening people talking about his family, work, self, friends. Kalau dah mmg bapak dia Donald Trump, nak buat cemana kan? First date, gua tak kisah beb. But kalau dah everytime dating asyik dok citer , nyampah gua.

Great Gal Turnoff #2: Messy Melvin

A-list celebrities can pull off the unkempt look. First-daters need to pay attention to shaving, clothing and bad breath. If the guy can’t even put in the effort for a first impression, it doesn’t bode well down the road.

Yes yes… Totally agree!!!!. And I seriously, gua penah cabut lari on the first date, sbb mamat tu selekeh sgt. Kuku jari kotor. EWWWWWWW.Literally cabut lari. I cannot handle this. No 1 Turn Off

Great Gal Turnoff #3: Rude Ricky

“Where’s our drinks, lady?” If a guy treats the service staff with a lack of respect, a great gal will likely assume he’ll do the same to her someday.
The last thing anyone wants is to be talked down to or disrespected.

I think most Malay guy ( Yes, I only have experience dating Malay guys) quite humble and polite on first date.

Great Gal Turnoff #4: Cheapie Charlie

There will always be debate about who should pay on a first date. Some guys are traditionalists and want to foot the bill; others expect a 50-50 monetary split. In most cases, offering to pay is the way to go. Let her pick up the tab on a future date.

First date with my husband, I pick up the bill. Kalah betting. Tapi mmg lagi molek kalau 1st date the guy bayar. Tapi tak ade salahnya kalau pompuan yg bayar dulu. 50-50 so tak cool.

Great Gal Turnoff #5: Still-Married Michael

Marriage, separation and divorce are pretty cut-and-dry terms. If a guy says he’s separated when he really means he’s cheating on his wife, it’s going to cause trouble. Be honest from the get-go and let the dating chips fall where they may.

Yes be honest. Seriously some woman wouldn’t mind dating another woman’s husband/fiancé/bf. Yeah… some girls just wanna have fun. Aight?

Great Gal Turnoff #6: Hands-On Howie

Guys need to read the signals before assuming hand holding, massaging and other touchy-feely activities have the green light.
Jumping too quickly to any form of intimacy can make any guy seem too aggressive.

Please, let me hold your hand first. Kissing is different story.

Great Gal Turnoff #7: Stereotyping Stephen

“Oh, you’re one of those types of women.” Jumping to conclusions about a date from the way she answers one or two questions is a definite mistake. Let the date unfold before making assumptions about someone you just met.

I don’t mind. At least we know ppl impression on us, in just answering 2-3 questions. Tak turn off lah. Cume kurang senang.

Great Gal Turnoff #8: Distracted David

His cell phone is ringing constantly, he’s popping away from the table every 10 minutes, and he keeps interrupting the conversation flow. First dates require focused attention — that means putting the phone on vibrate, making eye contact and being present.

This one bukan setakat on dating, in any occasion pun benda ni very much annoys me. Hasna please take note. ah ah ah

Great Gal Turnoff #9: All-Business Barry

Some guys are great salesmen or outstanding negotiators. But there’s a time and place for business and a time and place for leisure. Guys who treat first dates like business transactions will never close the deal.

Memang turn off la kalau tetiba on first date dok persuade aku join Omega Trend, Luxor and such. . ah ah ah

Great Gal Turnoff #10: Nervous Ned

He can’t sit still, he’s banging his fork on the table, and he won’t make eye contact for more than three seconds. Nervous antics are a real turnoff and make a great gal think a guy has something to hide. Work out the nervous kinks before the date starts.

Nerds are cute. Cemerkap (loqlaq) runs in my gene. So gua tade hal beb.

Somewhere I Belong..
I wanna heal, I wanna feel what I thought was never real
I wanna let go of the pain I’ve held so long
(Erase all the pain till it’s gone)
I wanna heal, I wanna feel like I’m close to something real
I wanna find something I’ve wanted all along
Somewhere I belong

I will never know myself until I do this on my own
And I will never feel anything else, until my wounds are healed
I will never be anything till I break away from me
I will break away, I’ll find myself today

last night was awesome!! i was jumping up and down screaming my lungs out!!
hihihi.. nk nyanyi lagu tak hafal.. so terjerit jerit jer lah!
seats best gila pulak tuh, nyesal babed tak bwk kamera die, aku mmg lah kan tader kamera, harap phone pon battery dah flat.

anyway, aku mmg sgt struggle nk pegi singapore semlm.. flight pukul 3.40pm, 12pm, aku baru abih conference call dgn customer. lunch dgn emie kejap, terkedek kedek nak gi bank, mana tiket flight tak ambik lagi ( nk kene ambik 2 hours before), pas tuh soh emie check kan bleh ambik kat kl sentral, so ingat cam ok lah kan.. sampai2 tgk number queue punye lah panjang, masa tuh dah exactly pukul 1.35pm, agak menggelabah lah kan aku.. pas tuh aku pasrah jek, naik ERL gi KLIA tanpa tiket flight. sampai KLIA, at MAS office pukul 2.20pm, aku ckp kat org kaunter aku nk ambik tiket, flight pukul 3.40, dia kata sempat, so aku tunggu. tunggu je dh dekat 20 minit.

in short, aku sampai lah jugak singapore kan.. flight delay sejam rupenyer.
aku sampai, babed pick up terus gi konsert. penat jek aku bwk brg2 mekap, langsung tak sempat. ( boleh jek nk mekap kat toilet MRT station, tapi aku tader feel lah!)
babed jek yg cun.
:)

p/s: i love Mike Shinoda !!! ( isk.. iskk.. patut laa berg soh kiteorg berubah, bwk2 laa simpan duit gi umrah, ade gak hasilnye kan ermie! ini pegi konsert.. ishhhh.. )

[17:29] morl0ck: ko pegi sini
[17:29] morl0ck: pastu aku support tiket flight pegi italy
[17:29] ermiefaharina: seresssss
[17:29] ermiefaharina: aku simpan ni
[17:29] ermiefaharina: siap stamping pas ni
[17:29] morl0ck: tapi naik ryan air la
[17:29] ermiefaharina: tak kisah la
[17:29] morl0ck: ahahah
[17:29] ermiefaharina: sewa hostel jugak
[17:29] ermiefaharina: ok?
[17:30] morl0ck: tiket jek
[17:30] morl0ck: aku tak cop duit
[17:30] ermiefaharina: ok
[17:30] ermiefaharina: aku letak kat blog
[17:30] morl0ck: cop ke cap aa?
[17:30] ermiefaharina: cop
[17:30] morl0ck: letak dkt blog void contract
[17:30] ermiefaharina: apsal lak
[17:31] ermiefaharina: kene la ade saksi
[17:31] morl0ck: alamak menyesal ckp

Tu die. Tunang pon blom dah dpt hadiah nomo 1. Good job Ermie.

Happy 3rd Anniversary