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went out with maiz yesterday evening, lepak at the most hip and happenning part of alor setar (ahahah.. supposedly laa).. starwalk.. drinks blended fruit juice instead of the usual mocha… and… our topics of conversation however never ran from the usual - relationship problem.. may be someone should have started love clinics so that anybody with any sufferings or question regarding it can go to these clinics and get treatment accordingly, and better yet we can charge it to our company.

our main topics after sometime is about match making, but there are no conclusions can be made since we are short of members during that discussion, ( the usual members would likely comprises of sheyna, ermie and may be mimi plus anis as well, kalau tambah babed.. makin berapi laa kan topik nih). so i am intrigued to write this in our blog..

the issues here are:
now, let say we are far beyond trying to get the guys ourselves ( i hope this is not the current case yet, since we are only 24.. mude lagi tuh..kan? ker? i’m turning 25 in a few days, demn.)…
and there are people who are trying to pair you up with this nice young guys, or may be nice but not so young anymore,(esp during this festive season cum kenduri season, jumpe sepupu sepapat, uncle auntie yg bored with nothing much to do and knows lots of people)
eg of common dialogue ( i make up this one which means this conversation has not happen yet ):

macikk: haa .. nih si **** dah kawin, hang bila lagi?
me : (would most probably tersengih jer laa ..)
macikk : hang tadak kawan lagi ka?
me: kawan ramaiiiiii..
macikk: isk.. kalau tadak kawan jantann.. meh sini aku nak perkenai..
and this will totally start a new conversation promoting those guys, yg ntah ntah tatau pon dirinyer di promote.

and at first you would think.. wat da f**k, cam laa kalau aku tak kawin akan menyusahkan org.. and after that u realize, ok, they are trying to do me good here, i can’t find my own mr. right so they are offering help without charges kan.. so.. what da hell.. just give it a try..

so.. disini laa isunyer..

first, if u r willing to participate in this so call match making, do u have to go for a blind date with this guy? or do you meet up in a family function which means being under close supervisions by your family .. huh?

second, let say somehow u went out with/met him, what happens after that?
do we (gals) has to put effort in the realationship or just let the guys initiate it, meaning if after the meeting, if they don’t call u back, it will mean that they don’t like you enough and you do nothing about it but yet keep on wondering by yourselves if you are not good enough?(kene dump on the first date?) or do we have to be proactive.. get what you want.. ( this is the case kalau u want the guy of course)
what if you feel that you don’t have any chemistry and yet the guy is putting all his effort in winning your heart, would you give him a chance, just for the sake of it or out of respect for the person who introduces you?

haa.. i think this is already lots of question being throw in.. personally i think, i will not be comfortable going out for a blind date.. may be it is just not in our culture or may be we malaysian tend to expect more out of a relationship, so u r plainly scared. mcm kalau tgk miss match at 8TV(sheyna ajar aku tgk.. tapi aku baru tgk sekali aa), senang jer derang kuar blind dates and match make kan org.. may be they are not expecting marriage out of every relationship laa kot kan?

lastly,this is a different subtopic,
if you are going to be the “telangkai” or match maker here ( borrowed the terms from berg), how to introduce your friend to another guy? what is the best way, i think if you tell them both the truth (that u r match making them) , they will definitely freak out, so u have to organize a casual functions so that they can meet up without knowing about it? will it work? you guys please help me..
i can’t conduct this conference over a mocha blended since i’m 300 miles away….

p/s: i’ve asked my sister for her opinion about this match make, ( btw, she met her husband through this match making, her friend introduced her, they met and decided to get married shortly after that - 3 months)
she said she simply do sembahyang istikharah and she felt that it is much easier being with my abang ipar compared to other guys, so i think this a very useful advice… proven by SIRIM!
they are happily married now considering they did not know each other that well in their early marriage.

on behalf of Hasna skali.

1. How old is your friend?
Same as mine.date? “I’m not good wif numbers hon…” (mcm familiar je ngan statement ni, kan Ermie?) its September 19.

2. Where do your friend live?
No. 69 Taman Desa, Jalan Klang Lama, KL. (memula i tot she’s lying bout her house number)her place is one of a kind, ada ramai binatang peliharaan.
bak kata hasna ‘dok tgh KL, jadik penternak ayam yg hebat’

3. What’ll she eats at a Nasi Kandar eatery?
hmmm… hard to answer. dia suka makan makanan yg merepek cam creppe,aiskrim yg pelik2 dan mahal harganya dan roti2 yg aneh.

so i think she would probably settle wif nasik putih separuh, sotong/ayam goreng,
sayur/acar mamak yg pelik2 rupanya. i think she likes weird stuff.
and air limau suam. and oh… her favourite outlet is Nasi Kandar Kayu,
Bukit Jambul, Penang.makan sampai licin pinggan!

4. Her most-used phrase.
“pahal lak” dengan muka dia yg sungguh kerek itu. siap dengan mata2 skali.
“oh ye keeee…aku tak tahuuuu…” dengan penuh innocent n naive gitu.

5. What’ll she be if she’s not a T**e** engineer
a damn fine housewife wif degree in medic. seriously, she’s a GREAT cook (my sifu),pengemas, pandai jahit baju, pandai layan mak mentua..ooppsss org tua, lawa, sopan santun..
tapi satu je,she have a major problem in her ironing department.

6. You’ll never caught her wearing..
earing! u know.. the kind yg u hef to cucuk kat telinga, not the kepit one…coz she takde piercing kat telinga, errrkk KOT? but dia mmg tak pakai subang.

7. Who would she pick if given the choice between Keanu Reeves and Brad Pitt?
as long as the guy hef tat ‘ko-sape-nak-kawan-ngan-aku’ face impression.
i’ve told ya.. she’s one weird gal!

Pecah Kaca, Pecah Gelas,
Nendia Ermie, Kami dah Balas.

P/S: dont forget to tune in 8TV tonite ya. Kickstart Aizzura! oh ya.. my 8TV is back! tengkiu haseeennnaaaaa…

have a great weekend!

1. How old is your friend?
Hasna - Oldest haha. Her b’day is on the 19th next month. Korg..prepare hadiah nnt ade party tauu. In person, pilots/stewards/pakcik yg tak kenal die would think she’s 12 and missing. That explains the extra attention/candies she gets wherever she goes. But her fellow colleagues at HQ call her “Puan Hasnah”. Though there was this 1 time she was address as “Encik Hasna”. We’ll discuss that under the sexuality question later.
Sheyna - Check 2005 calendar. Its d same day as Thaipusam. They put it that way so that senang die nk pi kuil thn depan. Her age does adds each year, but Hasna says she looks just as same as she’s in kindergarden. I think she acts her age quite well.

2. Where do your friend live?
Hasna - Penang, flat depan Balai Polis Telok Ayeq Tawaq n behind a mosque. Her room is exactly next to the mosque’s speaker. Alhamdulillaah.. Hasna la antare kwn aku yg jarang tinggal semayang.
Sheyna - Sri Cempaka, Puchong. 3rd floor walk-up apmt with state-of-the-art kitchen and dining set.

3. What’ll she eats at a Nasi Kandar eatery?
Hasna - Sayur Kubis Tumis yg kuning tu is a must. Yg lauk pauk protein suke tiru lauk aku. Another thing, is that she cannot finish up the whole plate of rice.
Sheyna - She’s a serious Nasi Beryani Bukhara lover. Never eaten Nasi Kandar with her before. But I bet she’ll have fried chicken mamak style, hard-boiled egg and acar. Same side dish as her Beryani. Iced tea in the afternoon, iced milo at nite.

4. Her most-used phrase.
Hasna - “Saiko siot”. Oh and “HahahaHAHAHhaha”.
Sheyna - “Saiko siot”. Just learned a new phrase - “TCA”. Sape pandai teka what it means aku bagi seposen.

5. What’ll she be if she’s not a T**e**m engineer/***st sales exec?
Hasna - a tourist guide from Feb to Jun in Sabah, diving away with foreign divers and having a blast, under the sun. And a lawyer from July till end of Jan.
Sheyna - a wedding planner. Or a cook, perhaps.

6. You’ll never caught her wearing..
Hasna - that grey Sembonia sneakers anymore.
Sheyna - a green baju kurung/shirt/tee/whateva la. If she wears green she’ll die.

7. Who would she pick if given the choice between Keanu Reeves and Brad Pitt?
Hasna - Any of them who’s gay with a superb driving skill.
Sheyna - Well..The question should be whose butt is yummier? Keanu’s or Brad’s?

Disclaimer: In the event of any compliments given to the subject or statements which will eventually cause a steep inclination at their ‘come-and-get-me’ chart is/are not paid by any party(ies) whatsoever. And any remark(s) which is/are considered rude or too revealing for others or the subject herself is/are hopefully to be excused, and it was ONLY because the writer herself likes to answer such questionnaires in a hmm shall I say, disturbing manner. Some matters are by far too personal to be put up for the WWW(whole-wide-world) to know as the 3 of us had made a pledge not to use this blog as a mental bulletin board.